Getting your crush or dream girl to fall for you requires time, wits, energy and patience. If you follow the right steps and treat a girl as you are supposed to she will definitely fall for you at her own time. When the time is right everything falls in place. These great proven tips will help you nail your crush you desire.
Get Her to Notice you/Grab Her Attention:
1. Find or create an excuse/opportunity to talk to her. The first rule to getting your crush fall for you is getting her to notice you, and in doing this you will need to talk to her at some point. You don’t have to have a good excuse or opportunity to talk to her, you just have to have some sort of excuse or reason to talk to her. Do not block or approach her on the way the first time you see her, if no reason or opportunity came for you to talk to her then you have to create one yourself like always looking weirdly or affectionately at her whenever you see her. Do this 2 to 3 times and your face will be registered in her mind and she may even ask her friends who is that guy always looking at me like that. When you've done this the time is ripe for you to approach or talk to her politely and gentlemanly.
2. Go slow/Do not rush: The second rule before you start pursuing your crush is to keep in mind that rushing her to fall for you is bad idea. No matter how you like a girl, take things slow and easy when you are getting to know her. If you rush to get into a relationship with a girl, she might think you are desperate and lose interest in you. Be patient and try to be her friend and get to know her better before you try to make her your girlfriend. You can initiate a date with her by saying something humorous like ''just one date and if you don't like me i will disappear into thin air and you will never see me again''. In appearing for the date be simple, well dressed and clean. During the date be polite and humorous, do not sound serious and do not sound foolish, smile, laugh when necessary and keep your composure.
3.Give her compliments: Cool and Sincere compliments is a great way to get a girl to feel more comfortable and relaxed with you. Just make sure that your compliments are true, direct and thoughtful, at ''getting to know her stage'' do not exaggerate or humorize the compliment. Compliment her looks, but also compliment her on things other than her appearance, such as her intelligence, her creativity, and her determination.
6.Flirt with her a little: Flirting is important to show your crush that you really like her and that you are interested in more than friendship. If you are new to flirting, then you will need to learn some techniques first. But often flirtation happens on its own. You may find yourself smiling and locking eyes with the girl you like and not even realize that you have been flirting.
7.Be real and live your life: Do not fake a life that you are not living, relate to your crush the way you are and even if you are opulent do not act extravagant or put up an ''i don't care attitude''. While it is ideal to spend time with a girl you like, it is very important to make time for your own activities, interests and passions. Make sure that you do not stop doing the things that you love in order to spend time with a girl. She will be more attracted to you if she sees that you are independent and have a great life, that you need not be around her all the time to feel happy.
10.Be positive, support and encourage her: When discussing with her be positive in your contribution and argument and never argue for long. Look for little ways to support and encourage her, show her how supportive and encouraging you are. This may also convince her that you are worthy of her love. Do little things to show her what a great guy you are.
12.Plan a special date with her preferences in mind: In order to take your casual flirty friendship to the next level, you will need to ask her out on a date at some point. Ask your crush out for a date in a way that is casual and low-pressure to increase her chances of saying yes and reduce any awkwardness if she says no. Try something like:
While you can ask her out for a date in a way that is casual, you may also want to plan a date that will really wow her. Think about what you already know about her to plan something she would enjoy. Or, you can just ask her what she would like to do. She may appreciate your consideration of her desires as you plan your first date.
13.Make the date cool and lovely: Show your crush that you have her comfort and enjoyment at the top of your agenda, this will make it more likely that she will want to go on more dates with you. Watch for little ways that you can ensure that she is having a great time all through the date.
14.Let her know how she makes you feel. After you have had a few dates, let her know how much you enjoy spending time with her. She might feel the same way about you, but you will have to speak up at some point if you want to be sure.
15. Strike when the time is ripe: know when to strike, never keep a girl waiting for too long or let her assume you just want her to be your friend. know when to put in the word ''I love you and I want you to be mine'' make the affair personal by telling her how you feel and what you want, do this when she's smiling and she's in a romantic and good mood. If you do this when the time is ripe, everything will fall in place at that spot or later on.
scope 99% of girls with this they will truly fall in love with the person you are and not your wealth if you have one. If you scope a girl with this and it doesn't work, you will have to give me the facts of the scope and the situation in the comments section i will review them and give you a master plan and give you your next move. If you have additional briefs or comments leave them at the comments section, I will reply them as soon as I see them.
Get Her to Notice you/Grab Her Attention:
1. Find or create an excuse/opportunity to talk to her. The first rule to getting your crush fall for you is getting her to notice you, and in doing this you will need to talk to her at some point. You don’t have to have a good excuse or opportunity to talk to her, you just have to have some sort of excuse or reason to talk to her. Do not block or approach her on the way the first time you see her, if no reason or opportunity came for you to talk to her then you have to create one yourself like always looking weirdly or affectionately at her whenever you see her. Do this 2 to 3 times and your face will be registered in her mind and she may even ask her friends who is that guy always looking at me like that. When you've done this the time is ripe for you to approach or talk to her politely and gentlemanly.
- Try saying something related to the opportunity you've seen like after hearing her sing "Hey, i really admire your voice its angelic'' or do you remember what the homework was?" or "Can you please pass the salt?" or '' av seen you around here a couple of times are you new here? just start a conversation with the circumstance or opportunity you get, be smart and apply humor when necessary. Even if at that time she is not friendly do not budge just do your thing and know when to withdraw. After talking to a girl for the first time talking to her again would not be difficult.
2. Go slow/Do not rush: The second rule before you start pursuing your crush is to keep in mind that rushing her to fall for you is bad idea. No matter how you like a girl, take things slow and easy when you are getting to know her. If you rush to get into a relationship with a girl, she might think you are desperate and lose interest in you. Be patient and try to be her friend and get to know her better before you try to make her your girlfriend. You can initiate a date with her by saying something humorous like ''just one date and if you don't like me i will disappear into thin air and you will never see me again''. In appearing for the date be simple, well dressed and clean. During the date be polite and humorous, do not sound serious and do not sound foolish, smile, laugh when necessary and keep your composure.
- Never tell a girl that you ''love'' her before you go on a date with her. You may tell her you like her on your first date but not ''love''. tell her you like her when the date is whinding up and do that when shes laughing or smiling, if she gives a positive response cool if she doesn't or says nothing, do not budge just do your thing. After the date when saying bye or dropping or seeing her off tell her you had a nice time with her and you want to see her again, do not sound or look desperate.
3.Give her compliments: Cool and Sincere compliments is a great way to get a girl to feel more comfortable and relaxed with you. Just make sure that your compliments are true, direct and thoughtful, at ''getting to know her stage'' do not exaggerate or humorize the compliment. Compliment her looks, but also compliment her on things other than her appearance, such as her intelligence, her creativity, and her determination.
- For example, you could say, “You are such an amazing singer. Or I really admire your talent.” Or,” your handwriting is really cool, can you lend me your hand then smile or laugh.
4.Make sure you always look and smell good: Looking and smelling good will help make you more attractive to your crush and see you as someone she might want to date. Take care to shower every day, wear clean clothes, style your hair and shave, and wear cool deodorant and cologne. Show her that you have style and not a boyish swag and that you take pride in your appearance. She will always feel good to be with you and confident in introducing you to her friends.
5.Make her laugh and smile: Be humor conscious but do not merge your personality with humor. always try to make her laugh and smile, take your time to select and play at random cool comedy clips that will make her laugh hard. Offer her tickets to comedy shows if you can. Just be that guy she remembers and smiles.
6.Flirt with her a little: Flirting is important to show your crush that you really like her and that you are interested in more than friendship. If you are new to flirting, then you will need to learn some techniques first. But often flirtation happens on its own. You may find yourself smiling and locking eyes with the girl you like and not even realize that you have been flirting.
- Smile at her when you see her and make frequent eye contact as well. These are clear signs that you are interested in her. If she looks away, don’t get worried. This might just mean that she is nervous, which can be a fertile ground for you to plant yourself.
7.Be real and live your life: Do not fake a life that you are not living, relate to your crush the way you are and even if you are opulent do not act extravagant or put up an ''i don't care attitude''. While it is ideal to spend time with a girl you like, it is very important to make time for your own activities, interests and passions. Make sure that you do not stop doing the things that you love in order to spend time with a girl. She will be more attracted to you if she sees that you are independent and have a great life, that you need not be around her all the time to feel happy.
8.Show her what makes you special and desirable: Your unique qualities and talents will help you get your crush to fall for you. Think about your best traits or talent and look for ways to put them on display. For example, if you are an athlete, invite her to one of your games. if you are an artist show her some of your works, if you are a singer play her some of your best tracks and ''love tracks if any'' If you play guitar or piano live perform for her or if you play in a band, invite her to come to one of your concerts. If you are an avid reader, strike up a conversation about books with her.
9.Listen to her: Being a good listener is important if you want to get your crush to fall for you. To show that you are listening to her, always maintain eye contact and say things like, ''Ok,'' ''Yes,'' ''wow,'' ''I see,'' and ''Go on.'' Make sure that at times you repeat back what she has said now and then to show that you have been listening to her. Always make gestures to show that you are following the conversation.
10.Be positive, support and encourage her: When discussing with her be positive in your contribution and argument and never argue for long. Look for little ways to support and encourage her, show her how supportive and encouraging you are. This may also convince her that you are worthy of her love. Do little things to show her what a great guy you are.
- For example, if she sings you can attend an occasion she will sing and compliment her. you can cheer her on at one of her games, praise her for doing a task well and even when she doesn't, encourage her and make her feel she can do better and her do this when necessary.
11.Be cool and polite: Although some girls are attracted to bad boys but a kind, considerate and polite guy makes a much better boyfriend. You may mix it at times with a bad boy attitude but make it moderate. Make sure that you demonstrate your boyfriend qualities to her. Open doors for her, draw seats, kind gestures, use good table manners, and be kind to others.
12.Plan a special date with her preferences in mind: In order to take your casual flirty friendship to the next level, you will need to ask her out on a date at some point. Ask your crush out for a date in a way that is casual and low-pressure to increase her chances of saying yes and reduce any awkwardness if she says no. Try something like:
- "I have an extra movie ticket to a (movie or comedy show0 on Friday night. Are you busy?"
- look for a cool opportunity like a dinner night or cool party or just a date night.
While you can ask her out for a date in a way that is casual, you may also want to plan a date that will really wow her. Think about what you already know about her to plan something she would enjoy. Or, you can just ask her what she would like to do. She may appreciate your consideration of her desires as you plan your first date.
13.Make the date cool and lovely: Show your crush that you have her comfort and enjoyment at the top of your agenda, this will make it more likely that she will want to go on more dates with you. Watch for little ways that you can ensure that she is having a great time all through the date.
- For example, if she seems cold sitting outside at a café, ask if she wants to head inside to warm up. Or, help refill her glass or if the waiter forgot to bring her a drink refill, get the waiter’s attention and ask (nicely) about it or just go to the bar and get it for her yourself.
- help her with water if choked or help her when she makes a move to get something.
- help her with saviet after she had finished eating.
14.Let her know how she makes you feel. After you have had a few dates, let her know how much you enjoy spending time with her. She might feel the same way about you, but you will have to speak up at some point if you want to be sure.
- Try saying something like, ''you are really cool to be with I always have an amazing time when am with you. You’re really fun to be around.” Or, be more specific and say something like, “You have the most beautiful smile. It brightens my day.
15. Strike when the time is ripe: know when to strike, never keep a girl waiting for too long or let her assume you just want her to be your friend. know when to put in the word ''I love you and I want you to be mine'' make the affair personal by telling her how you feel and what you want, do this when she's smiling and she's in a romantic and good mood. If you do this when the time is ripe, everything will fall in place at that spot or later on.
scope 99% of girls with this they will truly fall in love with the person you are and not your wealth if you have one. If you scope a girl with this and it doesn't work, you will have to give me the facts of the scope and the situation in the comments section i will review them and give you a master plan and give you your next move. If you have additional briefs or comments leave them at the comments section, I will reply them as soon as I see them.
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